Compulsive Shopping and ADD

People with ADD often have problems with finances because they continuously spend more than they should. Shopping may be used as a way to deal with depression, anxiety or to create some excitement or stimulation in your life. However, like other addictions, the "high" rarely lasts long and generally makes you feel worse as your finances deteriorate and debt mounts. After shopping, you feel guilty and ashamed that once again you have lost control.

Individuals with ADD are particularly vulnerable to compulsive shopping because their impulsivity makes it hard for them to think through the purchase -- often buying items that they do not need. I remember one man with ADD whose living room was filled with bags of mulch and a table saw and he lived in an apartment!

Do you find that you shop to feel better? Do you go shopping with the intention of buying one or two items and return with bags full of purchases? Do you have bad credit or serious financial problems because of your spending habits? Do you need to take an extra job just to pay the bills that result from your spending?

If you answered "yes" to these questions, try these ADD- Friendly ways to deal with your compulsive shopping or spending:

  • Make a list and buy only what is on the list.
  • Don't shop alone. Take along as family member or friend who can help curb your spending.
  • Try window shopping when the stores are closed or go shopping without your credit cards and wallet until you decide what you want and need.
  • Use only one credit card and cancel and destroy all others so that you can't run up a balance on each.
  • Pay with cash and take only a reasonable amount that you can afford with you when you shop.
  • Take a walk or exercise when the urge to shop hits you.
  • Don't shop on the internet or use catalogues...only shop in person and only when you need something. Refrain from shopping for pleasure.
  • If you feel out of control, seek professional help. If you already have poor credit because of past spending patterns, contact a credit counseling center.

 

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